In the discernment for a possible Visitandine vocation, St. Jane de Chantal, our Foundress, guides us with her Answers, and can serve as a preparation as well for her Feast August 12.
Discernment of One’s Disposition for Religious Life
St Jane said, “ There is less fear of lively spirits in youth, than of melancholy, but staid and solid minds are greatly to be desired; for sensible minds are always capable of observance, and weak ones of slackness. Believe me, Sisters, I entreat you, give heed to the natural dispositions of the persons you receive, for I know that nature dies not, and in the long run will be sure to come out.
Truly we must well examine aspirants and become well acquainted with them, if possible, before they are taken inside; because when they are there, it is very difficult to send them away; nevertheless it must be done when they are not suitable and we must be firm on this occasion.”
(P 304-305)
So as a discerner, what can you learn from this?
First, know yourself, grow in self-knowledge. Become capable of commitment, of stability, of the ability to follow the Constitutions of the Order well.
What are your strengths and weaknesses? Present them transparently to the community you wish to enter; be upfront and honest about yourself.
The discernment process takes time; expect a reasonable pace and an honest give and take with the members before your entrance date is set.
Be aware that the mutuality in the discernment process continues after entrance and that you will grow toward your permanent commitment, or else discover that your vocation lies elsewhere.