Questions to Ponder:
VisitationSiste: The point of this reflection is to highlight that conjugal love is never meant to focus exclusively on physical pleasure,
Ruth (Guest): Hi Judy!
Ruth (Guest): I found some of today’
Lisa C: How so Ruth
Ruth (Guest): People do not ordinarily,
VisitationSiste: Marriage is under fire but today we saw the best of it sat least on the surface
Ruth (Guest): Hello Sr.
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Lisa C: I think the Pope is right about needing more education for marriage prep
Lisa C: Pre Cana of 3 hours was not enough
VisitationSiste: Thank you Ruth-
Ruth (Guest): Lisa,
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Lisa C: Maybe it is for 2 Catholics,
VisitationSiste: I think one needs years of prep or sat least equal to the other sacraments
Lisa C: No,
Lisa C: When I was there it was cloistered and only the students could come into the grounds.
VisitationSiste: Guess what-
VisitationSiste: Spiritual parenthood-
Ruth (Guest): Oh,
VisitationSiste: Procreation is a purpose or is it a fruit of marriage?
Lisa C: I think a fruit
Lisa C: Maybe both
VisitationSiste: Not every one can have children-
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Lisa C: Not everyone can have children,
VisitationSiste: Marriage has always been a great mystery to me-
Ruth (Guest): True Sister,
VisitationSiste: It is surrounded by religous rites because in itself is highly spiritual-
VisitationSiste: I think so Ruth
Lisa C: I do not think we should discuss how people see it outside the Church,
Lisa C: We see it as a sacrement,
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Lisa C: We are one yet separate people
Lisa C: The Father and Son come together as one and the HS comes from them
VisitationSiste: This may be way off base,
Lisa C: Like marriage man and woman come together as one and a child comes from them
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Ruth (Guest): Why do you think that is off-
Lisa C: Mother,
Lisa C: There is Catholic marriage and legal marriage they are totally different
Lisa C: Jewish marriage is different too
Lisa C: Catholic marriage is permanant
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Ruth (Guest): It seems to me that wherever there is love –
Ruth (Guest): Love is stronger than death.
Lisa C: Jews have divorce
VisitationSiste: Ruth because I was going to compare it to siblings.
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Lisa C: Maybe that is why after my annulment I could not marry the man who proposed to me
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VisitationSiste: An annulment might be different-
Ruth (Guest): But a Jewish marriage has a lot in common with a Catholic marriage.
VisitationSiste: But Lisa I understand your statement above
Lisa C: Mother,
Ruth (Guest): Lisa,
VisitationSiste: Years ago when I was a child,
Lisa C: It was hard for me to understand.
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Lisa C: No,
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Ruth (Guest): I think that we are in some very fundamental way CHANGED by who we love,
Lisa C: I did not know it was not sacramental,
VisitationSiste: True Ruth.
Ruth (Guest): An annulment essentially means that the marriage never really existed,
VisitationSiste: Civilly existed,
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Lisa C: For annulment one or both did not come to it with the right disposition.
Lisa C: My marriage was in the Catholi Church,
Lisa C: Catholic
VisitationSiste: Marriage is very serious and how do we today help people understand that
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VisitationSiste: In the end searching for the Will of God is most important in any undertaking
Lisa C: I think people avoid it now,
Ruth (Guest): A very devout friend of mine when I was in medical school –
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Ruth (Guest): The priest’
Lisa C: My parents are married 62 years,
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Lisa C: Ruth,
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Lisa C: Even if they were not sacramentally married,
Lisa C: God does not make any people who are not as good as everyone else
VisitationSiste: There is so much confusion over these realities
VisitationSiste: After awhile don’
Lisa C: Do not understand your question,
VisitationSiste: Judy was saying people fear commitment I do agree.
Lisa C: I guess it depends on the person,
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VisitationSiste: That is a decision too
VisitationSiste: As for infertility of married couples,
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Lisa C: God has reasons for everything,
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Ruth (Guest): Haven’
Ruth (Guest): Just refreshed in a new frame.
Ruth (Guest): No,
Ruth (Guest): Guess I just had to leave it alone for a while.
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Lisa C: You cannot push it to the extreme.
Lisa C: The priest made no sence
Lisa C: sense
VisitationSiste: Lisa you have it right
Lisa C: Anyway God makes everyone He wants to make
Lisa C: Everyone is His child
Lisa C: St.
VisitationSiste: How do we develop the deeper understanding of marriage with our schoolkids or our own families.
Lisa C: We should pray that he does
Lisa C: We have to teach what marriage is and encourage children to marry Catholics who believe the same thing about it
Ruth (Guest): Not,
Lisa C: That is kind of wrong,
VisitationSiste: In the past but not here now Ruth
Ruth (Guest): Glad of it,
VisitationSiste: I guess we are coming to the end of thougts on this-
Ruth (Guest): My parents were different religions.
Ruth (Guest): And his challenges to my Faith (
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Lisa C: Mother,
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VisitationSiste: No Intro is for the laity Treatise for the nuns
Ruth (Guest): Good way to inform yourself,
Lisa C: Judy when you get married in church you still have to have a marriage license and have a civil marriage
Ruth (Guest): I think it providential that we are talking about the Sacrament of marriage on the feast of the Holy
Lisa C: None of the children of annulled couples are bastards
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Ruth (Guest): Trinity.
Lisa C: Oh,
Lisa C: Treatise is amazing
Lisa C: Mother,
Ruth (Guest): Lisa,
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Lisa C: Ruth it is but you still have to have a marriage licence
Lisa C: No blood tests anymore
Ruth (Guest): What is really crazy now,
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VisitationSiste: Novices do selections from Intro but Temp Professed all of Treatise
Lisa C: I think every theological concept is in the Treatise
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Lisa C: It is very long
VisitationSiste: I have to check The Treatise –
VisitationSiste: Maybe just some sections of it-
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VisitationSiste: Exactly
VisitationSiste: Short example above
Ruth (Guest): Are you able to share the videos here?
VisitationSiste: I think ok because it was published in a newsletter but I will check
Ruth (Guest): I mean on this site,
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VisitationSiste: Yes good for me to check on that0-
VisitationSiste: Yes Judy!
Ruth (Guest): Not necessarily on Chatroll.
Lisa C: Yes,
Lisa C: I think anything on You Tube can be shared anywhere
Ruth (Guest): If they are on YouTube legally,
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VisitationSiste: I wish I could drive you there!
Ruth (Guest): Some videos on You Tube become “
Lisa C: God bless
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Ruth (Guest): Wonderful,
Ruth (Guest): I have eye surgery on the 22nd –
Ruth (Guest): God bless you!
Ruth (Guest): Here is a Canon Lawyer’
Ruth (Guest): mutual respect and chuckling as he told me.
Ruth (Guest): experience the response of a softer,