We wait with Mary

 

“Mary said: ‘Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.’”

 

In God Desires You, St. Francis de Sales on Living the Gospel, author Eunan McDonnell, SDB, tells us:

 

“…Jesus praises the poor in spirit. He encourages a childlike attitude towards God our Father and openness to receive in faith. What is required is a childlike simplicity that can speak the ‘yes’. This is Mary’s childlike response to the angel when she says, ‘Let what you have said be done to me’. In this manner she lives the maxim ‘ask for nothing, refuse nothing’. She is open to receive what God desires to give, his love.” (pgs. 130-131)

 

Simple words, but Mary’s childlike “yes” is anything but simple. It calls upon Mary, and upon each one of us with Mary as our model, to trust beyond all measure in the love and mercy of our Father. It invites each of us to know in our “heart of hearts” that God truly desires us and desires to fill us with abounding love. In our willingness to be open to this “being filled” calls us to empty ourselves, to leave behind all that takes up our heart space, leaving open space for God’s presence. McDonnell writes:

 

“What is required is true emptiness which is to be found in the anawim to which Mary belongs. A complete and utter dependence on God. An emptiness of heart that allows God to shower it with his abundance. Mary and those who imitate her emptiness, put up no barrier to the generosity of God who loves to give. Poor in spirit, she offers empty space which can be inhabited by God.” (Ibid)

 

In all of our following the example of Mary, we sense the living out of Advent, the time of waiting patiently with an openness to God’s word being “done to me.” Francis de Sales says of Mary, she is “the morning star which brings us gracious news of the advent of the true sun.” (Oeuvres IX:5)

 

Mary lives out her Advent. We, for our part, wait with Mary for our Advent.

 

Questions to ponder:

  1. What might it mean for us to “wait with Mary”? How can Mary’s life shed light on the meaning of Advent?
  2. Waiting for Christmas is not about simply making it to December 25 and what that day entails. It is about re-opening ourselves to be prepared to receive Christ anew. What can we learn from her docility to God as we prepare to enter the Christmas season?
  3. We tend to think of the gifts and food we want to receive at Christmas, but what is it that God wants us to receive?